In this honest and thoughtful episode, Shane and Pete reconnect after a short break and reflect on their recent experiences—including Shane’s family holiday in Queensland, parenting challenges, and their chat with Dr. Stephen Carbone in the previous episode. They unpack what it really means to slow down as a parent, the value of emotional intelligence, and how relationships shift when kids enter the picture.
From funny parenting moments to deep self-reflection, this one covers the full spectrum of fatherhood. The boys also share their recent dad wins, open up about personal growth, and explore how taking time to reflect can shape how we show up every day—for ourselves, our kids, and our partners.
🍼 Key Moments:
00:00 – Welcome back & holiday reflections
02:59 – Recapping the chat with Dr. Stephen Carbone
05:43 – Parenting challenges across generations
08:54 – Emotional intelligence in parenting
11:47 – The power of apologising to your kids
14:52 – Balancing personal time with parenting responsibilities
18:02 – Navigating relationship changes after kids
20:34 – Creating lasting family memories
23:44 – The date night challenge
26:35 – Recent dad wins and practical parenting strategies
🌱 Takeaways & Themes:
- Shane’s holiday created space for reflection and learning
- Parenting has changed—but every generation has its own challenges
- Slowing down often leads to better parenting moments
- Emotional intelligence and being present matters more than being perfect
- It’s okay to get things wrong, so long as we keep learning
- Making time for your relationship after kids is crucial
- Family memories and small wins are what truly matter
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🎧 Catch Up on Past Episodes:
- 👨⚕️ Dr. Stephen Carbone on Grandparenting, Mental Health & Legacy – https://powerstrengthvulnerability.com.au/podcast/dr-stephen-carbone-on-parenthood-mental-health-legacy/
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📌 Just a Reminder:
This podcast isn’t a licensed mental health service. We’re not psychologists—we’re just two blokes sharing our lived experience. If you need support, please reach out to a professional.